Thursday, September 29, 2011

I'm Back, with a ONE TRACK MIND!

So I'm back! I've been gone for a couple of weeks bogged down with school...UGH!  I have been consistently in the library studying, studying, and studying...wait for it, wait for it....STUDYING!!!LOL! 

Anyhoo, to my subject, I have a ONE TRACK MIND...OMG! So there is ALWAYS a cute guy in my study area in the library... never fails, ALWAYS! It was a very nice distraction to check out the cuties around me! I swear sometimes my eyes have a mind of their own, they're always looking for some type of I candy to fixate on...SMH!!! 

Still Single, Cam? {Sigh} Yea! 

Monday, September 12, 2011

I don't mean to be a Debbie Downer...But!

Ok, I'm not usually a whiner or complainer AT ALL, however, today, this week really, is an exception. I have just been a Debbie downer when it comes to men, dating, relationships, and all that jazz. I don't know if its hormones or the atmosphere (anyone and anything but me of  but I'm not on my game...not like I ever was! Every man I've come across lately are confusing and frustrating the crap out of me...gosh! I'm getting annoyed with men super easy lately, I don't know what the deal is. I LOVE me some! I've also been getting down on myself asking the questions...Is it me? Is it the Men that I'm going after? Am I too short, too tall, too fat, too skinny (HA! Yea!), do I smell...I mean DANG I'm running out of questions! Trust I've thought about all possible questions (maybe not). So I guess this is my "whoa is me" post! I'm not usually like this. I have a laissez faire attitude about whatever happens, happens! But not this week, I'm so not in the right head space! Do y'all have moments like this or is it just me PMSing?! What's up with me, SNAP OUT OF IT>>>GOSH LADY!!! {SIGH} 

Still single, Cam? HELL YA! 

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now

Just started my blog, and I'm already neglecting it...smh...sorry! I started school, and my professors had me hit the ground running and I haven't caught my breath! So, school has been a BEAST to say (type) the least! But, I'm back! Anywhooo, on to the subject... 

There are two Mr. Rights, Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now. What's the difference? I'm glad you asked!

Ok, a relationship with Mr. Right usually consist of the following, but not limited too. . .

Long-term- partnership   

Partner- two becoming one

Love- wholeheartedly  

Invested interest- making the relationship work when it can work, and realizing it can't work and being mature and caring about the other's feelings       
Listen- understanding what you are expressing to him  
Passion and Heat- never dies (might, but it will always be there if both partners want it) 
Hard-work- constantly, but the other partner makes it easy!     
Patience- is key   

SIDE BAR: I love how I telling y'all how a relationship with Mr. Right should be, but I haven't even met him, a girl can dream can't she? Hopefully one day a reality! But, for the meantime just work with me ladies :)

But, I know plenty about Mr. Right Now....Let me explain a relationship (for a lack of a better word) with him. . .

Short- term- can't withstand a honest relationship so it ends up crumbling, and it's probably for the best

Booty call- Mmmmm, y'all now what I'm saying! It's good for a moment, but in the morning the feeling or alcohol is gone and reality set! 

Lust- looking with your eyes and not with your heart

Hears- The Charlie Brown effect! Whoommmp Whooommmp Whooommmp! He hears sounds instead of words with a meaning behind them. 

Lukewarm- The passion dies and never comes back or it was never there in the first place

Hardly works- self-explainatory 

Time consuming- A whole lot of headaches and not enough Tylenol 

I'm not going to lie, sometimes Mr. Right Now sounds pretty darn good...but never good enough! So, I'm holding out for Mr. Right, but dang can he get a move on...GOSH! But, my Mama always says, "You can't rush GOD!" Well I guess I have to sit and be patient! 

Still Single, Cam? What do you think?!?!?