Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now

Just started my blog, and I'm already neglecting it...smh...sorry! I started school, and my professors had me hit the ground running and I haven't caught my breath since...lol! So, school has been a BEAST to say (type) the least! But, I'm back! Anywhooo, on to the subject... 

There are two Mr. Rights, Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now. What's the difference? I'm glad you asked!

Ok, a relationship with Mr. Right usually consist of the following, but not limited too. . .

Long-term- partnership   

Partner- two becoming one

Love- wholeheartedly  

Invested interest- making the relationship work when it can work, and realizing it can't work and being mature and caring about the other's feelings       

                                          

Listen- understanding what you are expressing to him  

                                                           

Passion and Heat- never dies (might fizzle...lol, but it will always be there if both partners want it) 

                                                  

Hard-work- constantly, but the other partner makes it easy!     

                                                       

Patience- is key   

SIDE BAR: I love how I telling y'all how a relationship with Mr. Right should be, but I haven't even met him myself...lol, a girl can dream can't she? Hopefully one day a reality! But, for the meantime just work with me ladies :)

But, I know plenty about Mr. Right Now....Let me explain a relationship (for a lack of a better word) with him. . .

Short- term- can't withstand a honest relationship so it ends up crumbling, and it's probably for the best

Booty call- Mmmmm, y'all now what I'm saying! It's good for a moment, but in the morning the feeling or alcohol is gone and reality set in...lol! 

Lust- looking with your eyes and not with your heart

Hears- The Charlie Brown effect! Whoommmp Whooommmp Whooommmp! He hears sounds instead of words with a meaning behind them. 

Lukewarm- The passion dies and never comes back or it was never there in the first place

Hardly works- self-explainatory 

Time consuming- A whole lot of headaches and not enough Tylenol 

I'm not going to lie, sometimes Mr. Right Now sounds pretty darn good...but never good enough! So, I'm holding out for Mr. Right, but dang can he get a move on...GOSH! But, my Mama always says, "You can't rush GOD!" Well I guess I have to sit and be patient! 

XoXo,

Still Single, Cam? What do you think?!?!?